Krista the Tremendous Tortie , you certainly deserve a lot of love for the way you were able to help your Guardian overcome such a huge loss.My cats were especially comforting to me when I lost My parents , they seemed to know that they had to be there for me in those sad days.The very first cat that I had on my own was Pouncer , a Totie - Siamese blend who was such a good little cat. All The Best To Krista the Healer COTD.