Originally posted by luckies4me
Well once I did, and that was a few months ago with my rescued kitten that I bottle fed from the time she was 5 days old.I spent $600 dollars on her care. When Mystic was a kitten I spent $4,000 dollars to keep him alive. He need oxygen, to be fed from a tube etc. and was in the hospital until he was two months when I could finally take him home.
It was very nice of you to do this, really. But this is our point...if you already have a child, no job and only one car in your house hold, along with bad/no credit...you shouldn't be putting out more money when you can't afford to do so. You can help animals with your time...it means just as much.

My son was not happy there and neither was I and so I left.
I agree with Cataholic....the first thing that came to my mind was "at one years old?" Children that young rely on their parents for emotional guidance. You can provide that alone. And....why is it that YOU had to move to be near your child's father?? This message you are sending to Dylan's father isn't the greatest.

Now I see that you are leaving. I know you came here for support...and that is what we offered you. We also are trying not to just lend an ear, we see that you need a way out. Above all, we are upset that poor Mystic is ill and we have to sit here while you can't afford to help. How else do you think we would have responded? We are animal lovers who want action.