At first I thought I misread the post and you were going to talk about bacon! Anyhow, look at it this way, Candace: it's behind you, you can't see it, only those behind you can see it. If they're not fast enough to keep up w/you, you don't need 'em. And if they're behind you b/c they're in your past, then that's where they should stay and you still don't need 'em. Just take good care of your body b/c it's your vehicle for experiencing life on earth. Sometimes when I look at myself I see my mother. I never thought in a million years that I'd look like this. I thought I was going to be a size 2 forever. Right. I could work out and diet and be as patient as death but size 2 is now just a memory. I don't scare people when I walk among them in public, so I figure I'm doin' alright. You look pretty darned good to me, girlie.