Jenluckenbach
I don't know what it sounded like, I just know what I meant, and I explained it further. as a caring person, I think that in itself shows I would spend time with the dog.
I am not going to continue this discussion further. I don't owe apologies. I have not even got a dog yet.
I don't want any hard feelings, so, lets forget this. ok?

Pam
you are completely right! that was a stupid statement, and did sound like that. thanks for making me realize it! I meant to say, if my brain was awake, that now I COULD have a dog in the yard. not one for the yard, they are alive, feeling, beings, and I would not use one as a ornament. so, sorry for the stupid comment!

so, now is this settled? I was stupid,(happens alot ) but I will give any dog that I may adopt the proper care, which to me INCLUDES attention/affection.