I always say that work puts you in contact with people you would otherwise NEVER chose to be with. . .and it also gives you the opportunity to work on things in yourself that you might not be able to otherwise.
I had that situation with my boss, but luckily we actually had a cards-on-the-table discussion where everything was aired. She made me realize some things about myself that needed work. I offered suggestions to her too!
Will she change? I don't know. . .and I realize it doesn't matter. Since I have made some changes in the way I handle things, my situation here has been MUCH better.
Turn this around and see what you can learn from it. He's a jerk, you're not going to change him, but perhaps there is a lesson in it for you that will allow you to move more smoothly through your day, even if that lesson is just learning to say "No" graciously and effectively. Perhaps, since you are slated to leave early today, there is someone else who can take care of this for you? Or perhaps it can wait until first thing in the morning? Perhaps there is someone over HIS head that you can address his apathy with, not to complain, just to clarify things? For example, if he is unable to offer you guidance on how to bill HIS projects, can you stick your head into his bosses office and ask him/her? That might bring a little light to the issue.
Keep us posted. . .it's good to have a place to vent - then you can forge ahead when you get it out of your system!
Cathy
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