Yikes, I hate to join the bandwagon, but, I, too, was going to post this earlier....Didn't you just celebrate Dylan's first birthday? Complete with presents, etc? And, if your boyfriend isn't working two jobs- there is a problem. You need to work at night, then, while he is watching Dylan. If you can't afford to care for your family, and animals, something needs to change. Now. Get with a credit counseling service, do something. DO NOT go broke buying each other and your son presents for Christmas..not if you can't make ends meet. It is time to buckle down. I found myself wanting to send you money, too. But, that isn't the solution. You have to decide this is not the way you want to exist- for your benefit and your childrens....I am not being judgmental, but, I think you need to speak to someone about finances....