I have to agree with Staci and WolfQ. I'm far from being Miss Moneybags but it seems like you've got more on your plate than you can handle!

I would like to think that "where there's a will, there's a way" -- surely SOMEONE would be willing to watch the baby for a few hours a week, maybe even for free!! Tug at some of the local cat clubs' heartstrings... maybe a member will be willing to donate some baby sitting time.

Good luck, keep us posted!