I think that you should be able to change the info. As for Steve, I'm with Scott, he probably just wants to forget that part of his life, however, if you 2 had had kids would he have not pursued a relationship with them?? Personally, I'd be more interested in the dog than a kid (easy for me to say, though since I don't have any 2 legged kids...nor do I WANT any 2 legged kids for that reason). I drive my mom nuts because I hold that opinion, but, such is life.