lailamara, yes, the older the worse the problem. Yes, they are still friends but less than before. They are much larger than before and don't fit in those oh so tiny places anymore - so they often sleep independently. Miley is on the monitor right now, keeping warm and Graemer is in the rocking chair near the heater. At night they both sleep under the covers with each other and me. They know now that I cannot hold both of them at the same time, as I did when they were little. I think it is just a stage - at least I hope. I think they are being teenagers right now.