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[Laura's Babies]

Sometimes we just need "changes" in our lives in order to grow or to be happy. This is one of the times for you. When something no longer works for you, it is time to move on and find what does. Good luck in makeing that discovery. God will always be there for you, no matter where you go or what you do. (Maybe it is Him that is leading you to where you need to be.)

[wombat2u2004]

Never mind Candace....you WILL find your own way

[Marigold2]

How brave and intelligent you are to find your own path instead of being lead.
You are blessed, and the right place will be there for you soon.
Change is good, change is growth, change is a part of daily life, our souls and hearts are not meant to stay in one place but to experience as much of this world as we can be it through travel, different culture, religion, friends.
Many are afraid of change, but the wise know it is a daily experience and to embrace it as you are.

[kitten645]

Everyone grows and everyone changes. You and your needs are not what they were 10 years ago. I am in awe of people that stay married because of this law of nature. Change is what life is all about. You will find your way.
Claudia

[NicoleLJ]

I know exactly how you feel. I decided the same thing a few months ago about my church. It is a very hard and personal relationship and even now, a few months after my decision, it still hurts me a great deal. Hang in there. It does get better.

[Catty1]

Thank you all SO MUCH.

I think my one regret at this point is that I handled part of 'giving notice' rather badly. Understandable, since the state of mind and emotional condition was really unfamiliar to me.

I have known the priest for a good 6 - 7 years. His one reply was 'after 6 or 7 years - an email? get real.'

And he is right. He's only another human being, and my (understandable) selfishness, fear and the indirect and impersonal communication with him hurt his feelings, I am sure.

I'll make any amends I need to, and be accountable.

Also - the church community helped me through many rough times over the years. Now that many of those seem to be over and I am on an even keel - do I feel I don't need them any more? This bears some thinking as well.

HUGS and peace to all of you.

[FabulouslyFierce]

It is so brave of you to follow your own path and do what you know is right for you. Feelings may be hurt, but the people who truly love you will stick by your side.

[wombat2u2004]

I think my one regret at this point is that I handled part of 'giving notice' rather badly. Understandable, since the state of mind and emotional condition was really unfamiliar to me.

I have known the priest for a good 6 - 7 years. His one reply was 'after 6 or 7 years - an email? get real.'

That's ok. I know it's easier to send an email than to go thru the trauma of direct confrontation. But sometimes it's better to do it that way, because you can really speak your mind and not be swayed by the replies to your concerns. I'm sure you spelt it out the way you felt, and I think he should understand that.