Until shortly neither Filou nor Tigris would come to my lap -which did not mean that they wanted no attention or did not want to cuddle but mostly in the bed. Since a year or so, Tigris has started to come to my side when we watch TV and some months ago, he started to come to the lap of the person who sits in our big blue chair.
We are surprised and happy and hope Filou will learn to appreciate that too.