When you have a baby that didn't sleep through the night until into his second year, you sleep when the baby sleeps quite nicely, thank you very much. ; )
I told J 2 weeks ago that I missed our naps together! He said that I can sleep on my own now.

As to the clean house, etc? Lots of things seem more important to me than that, now. We live with more dirt and clutter, and mess, I suppose. I can either clean, cook, do crafts, OR spend time with J. He wins out 99 times out of 100. Naptime was good for that. I got stuff done. He hasn't napped in years, lol.