*Update* Pics and Wedding Ideas...

[Kalei]

Hey everyone,

My parents have offered us something different now. To make a long story short, it is very very VERY difficult living with my fiance's parents and it is a struggle almost every day for me. I have cried many times for almost a year now because it is so stressful on me.

So anyways, my parents said that instead of having a fancy reception (they booked it at the Days Inn and it will cost about 2500 dollars) we could have our wedding way earlier (like in the summer) and have it cheaper...like have a potluck. And they will give us the 3000 dollars to go to our future apartment. 3000 dollars is like 4 months rent So basically we would be able to be moved out on our own in July, instead of October.

We are having a really hard time deciding what we want to do. In many ways we still want to have our wedding in October like planned with the really nice reception, but in some ways (like another stressful incident that happened tonight with me) we really want to get out as soon as possible.

I don't know what to do, it is such a hard decision! Sigh....

lol...why does life have to be so hard with so many decisions? lol

[Catty1]

You could always have a big party on your first anniversary.

[Husky_mom]

a big nice reception is that.. nice.. but it only lasts one night.. and considering living with the IL´s.. well been there done that.. I´d rather have a smaller one but equally as great.. you really doný need to spend that much to have a great wedding.. and use the $$ for my own place... either way.. you can wait till oct.. but go to your folks till then so you don´t get as stressed

[Marigold2]

Great idea.

You could always have a big party on your first anniversary.

[Kalei]

Hey Everyone,

It's only 1 month and 2 days until my wedding! I can't believe the time has gone by that fast! And of course now that it's so close I'm starting to get a little stressed about things lol

I got my princess dress that I showed you all a picture of in the earlier posts and it fits me so good and it looks great!! I also have all my girls dresses. I got all of them on ebay..so my dress plus 3 bridesmaid dresses in total costed me 400...isn't that great! People always say they would never get a dress from ebay, but mine all look amazing and they all fit great!

I can't wait until the wedding, and I just can't wait to post the pictures of the wedding for all of you to see

I think it will be very nice. At this point I just can't wait to say "I do" enjoy my day and have money again lol

We have our home already, I now live in an apartment and not with parents anymore...thank goodness lol I can have all of my pets again

I'll keep you posted.

[Taz_Zoee]

That's great that you paid for your bridesmaids dresses. All 5 of the weddings I've been in I've had to pay for my own dress. Not a big deal, really.

Well, I can't wait to hear all about your big day, and hopefully get to see some pictures too.

[Karen]

So, it's the first dress, or the second one? Time between now and the wedding will just fly by! Have a great day that day!