Hey everyone,

My parents have offered us something different now. To make a long story short, it is very very VERY difficult living with my fiance's parents and it is a struggle almost every day for me. I have cried many times for almost a year now because it is so stressful on me.

So anyways, my parents said that instead of having a fancy reception (they booked it at the Days Inn and it will cost about 2500 dollars) we could have our wedding way earlier (like in the summer) and have it cheaper...like have a potluck. And they will give us the 3000 dollars to go to our future apartment. 3000 dollars is like 4 months rent So basically we would be able to be moved out on our own in July, instead of October.

We are having a really hard time deciding what we want to do. In many ways we still want to have our wedding in October like planned with the really nice reception, but in some ways (like another stressful incident that happened tonight with me) we really want to get out as soon as possible.

I don't know what to do, it is such a hard decision! Sigh....

lol...why does life have to be so hard with so many decisions? lol