Gratefully, there is nothing in both our names. I will file the signed quitclaim deed with the Clerk of Courts on Monday.

As I peruse the internet about bankruptcies, I only assumed that he would be in Chap 13. He could be in Chap 7 (but I think his income is too high-there is a loophole about tithing, which allows 15% to go to charity, if that puts you under the income limit)
And then there is Chap 11, which I had not considered. He files taxes as a sole propriatorship so that might be his option.

My view about 'taking sides' has kind of been like - I'm not looking for friends to do that, even though he was the one who cheated on and abandoned me.
But, imagine this, if he were to have died, I probably would have 'heard from' just about everybody. And I haven't and I'm not going to at this point.
I hear of this statistic that 90% of people look at adultery as 'unfavorable' and the other 10% are his friends, I guess.

Particularly sad is the MIL & FIL, with whom I was very, very close. She never wanted to hear what I had to say. She said (through him) from the get-go that she would be bias towards her son.
I learned that blood is thicker than water.

His parents must be so impressed with him that 6 months ago, he owned a home with me, free and clear, and now he's in bankruptcy.

I am just lucky to get away as unscathed as I did.