Thanks everyone for the much needed support. I've been up since 2:30 am, it's about quarter to 4 now. Managed to get thru to Rogers technical support and have them fix my blackberry problem so one thing off my plate. In about 12 hours I will be sitting with my counsellor. I hope she can help me deal better with all this crap he's pulling. It can't just be a neat and tidy divorce. He's got to make it ugly and do his best to hurt me. He's got what he wanted, I'm out of the house and we're divorcing. He needs to get over his thinking that he's entitled to everything.