I could just scream

[Pawsitive Thinking]

As a fellow soon-to-be divorcee you have my sympathy....hang in there

[Queen of Poop]

Thanks everyone for the much needed support. I've been up since 2:30 am, it's about quarter to 4 now. Managed to get thru to Rogers technical support and have them fix my blackberry problem so one thing off my plate. In about 12 hours I will be sitting with my counsellor. I hope she can help me deal better with all this crap he's pulling. It can't just be a neat and tidy divorce. He's got to make it ugly and do his best to hurt me. He's got what he wanted, I'm out of the house and we're divorcing. He needs to get over his thinking that he's entitled to everything.

[wombat2u2004]

Well, if he's going to fight it, then it's gonna cost him.
Been there and done that twice already....they were real messy.
I know now that the best way is the amicable way...makes more sense.
Best of luck with it all mate, I hope you can get thru it all without too much bother.
Just hang in there, knock the problems on the head as they arise, keep happy and let time heal it all....AND...you've got us all here
Wom

[Pawsitive Thinking]

As someone said to me when things started to get me down - "that's what you pay your solicitor for". Haven't had as much nastiness to deal with as you but handing things straight to her to deal with made things a lot less difficult for me.

Big hugs to you xx

[Queen of Poop]

As someone said to me when things started to get me down - "that's what you pay your solicitor for". Haven't had as much nastiness to deal with as you but handing things straight to her to deal with made things a lot less difficult for me.

Big hugs to you xx

Thank you! Sometimes I just feel so alone.

[Queen of Poop]

A bit of good news. Easy to take over the truck payments, simply send the dude a void cheque and good as done. So we will see what my lawyer recommends next week when she's back. This bit of news lightens my load a bit.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

A bit of good news. Easy to take over the truck payments, simply send the dude a void cheque and good as done. So we will see what my lawyer recommends next week when she's back. This bit of news lightens my load a bit.

and remember - you don't have to respond to anything he sends straight away (or at all ). Do whatever needs to be done when it suits you, not him. Took me a while to get the hang of that one - instead of "fight back! fight back" it was a case of "yeah well, whatever...."

[rosethecopycat]

Thank you! Sometimes I just feel so alone.

You are not alone Gayle, neither am I.
You've got folks to talk to and many others thinking about you.

Slow down, take it all in. Don't rush into anything, turn it all over to your advocate.
Remember that it's all a 'poker game' from here on out...and there is a move called: 'bluffing'...to which I answer with 'slow play'.

Still thinking of you, friend.

Rose

[Queen of Poop]

Thanks Rose. I had a very bad emotional day yesterday. To learn that he has moved my stuff to a storage locker, what condition is it in, and that he's holding it for ransom. It still upsets me greatly.