I could just scream

[Catty1]

YIKES.

First, HUGS!

And second, what's your lawyer doing in all this? Things like signing over the truck, the alleged $30,000, etc...

HOPEFULLY your job change will be a GOOD one; it might be just the thing you need.

Aw, HON....

[Queen of Poop]

My lawyer's away this week so all is on hold till next week. I'm waiting for a reply from the accountant as to how this works. I'm not paying tax on money I don't have.

[Anikaca77]

Oh my goodness, first I'm sorry for all your stress. Try to remember to breathe through all this.

Here's a hug too.

Prays that everything works out well too.
Melissa

[king2005]

Sorry to hear about this BS Splitting up/divorce can be so ugly! This is usually when you see just how nasty your partner can be & after a while you'll realize that you are much better without them.

My dad gave me some wonderful advice when going through a divorce/split up.. Never raise your voice, never get mad, & be 110% civil. In the long run you'll feel better about the situation, & if you go to court the judge will see your being civil (polite, etc) & that the other is a wild animals. When your polite & civil, the judge will make more favorable terms. My mother was a psycho & dragged me through hell & back. My dad kept his cool, never spoke ill of her & when SHE broke the law & was being a *cough* in court, the judge looked at my father & favored him.

I don't know you, but if you have kids, please keep them out of the mess, never talk about the divorce/splitup with them (the ugly parts), keep them out of court, & never speak ill of their father/mother you're no longer with.

My mother stooped so low as she tried to FORCE me to lie about my father. Her, her lawyer & CSA wanted me to say my father was sexually abusing me. I told them "but he didn't", the worst I got from him was a red butt from doing something really bad (playing on the road type of BAD thing.. I was allowed to be playfully noisy & run around playfully - with civil rules of course)... They told me they didn't care, they just needed me to say that he did... They even tried to bribe me with my dog's care Low eh? Well she killed that dog & I haven't spoken/seen to her since 2003. To this day, it still bothers me & this BS started about 10yrs ago... I've been in hiding since 2005 & very few people know where I live & very little to no mail/bills come to my door. Trust me, this isn't a fun way to live, hiding from your psycho mother....

^Just my 2 cents^... I have no idea of whats going on with you, but I hope things get more civil.

[Queen of Poop]

No kids involved so no worries there. I am on my very best behavior as I am a good, decent human being. Married to a monster. Thanks for the input.

[Pinot's Mom]

Gayle, if there is no proof of your making that money; relax. Burden is on him, not you. No paystub, no tax return (joint) claiming that money, no salary. Also, if he signed a "fraudulent" tax return when you were supposed to be making that money and it wasn't on there, he's got more trouble than he knows. Exhale.

The "stuff" in storage-he has no right without a judge ruling he can relocate anything. I know that hasn't happened (I also know you don't call them judges, but I don't know the proper term).

The job could be a good change; gives you something else to concentrate on.

Hugs...

[Alysser]

I am so sorry all this crap has been dumped on you. You have a good head on your shoulders, I have 100% confidence you can deal. I'll be thinking of you. Remember, we you here! Good luck with all this.