Kimmy I'm so sorry to hear about this. I know how hard divorce is. I, too, have been through it. I, too, was better off as friends with my X and we still talk as friends. I know Andy and you are both good people. I'm sorry for the heart-ache that divorce produces, but you CAN get through this. I'm so glad you both are going to remain friends and I wish both you and Andy much luck.