Mom still doesn't get it...and I keep winding up in tears...

[Alysser]

Candace, I am so sorry you're having so much trouble with your mom. I will always be here to offer a shoulder. (((hugs))) I know things will work out for you both.

[Pinot's Mom]

Candace, I don't how old you are (or your Mother), but I can sympathize with Mom issues. My Mother and I were oil and water from when I can remember until long into my adult life. Things were awful for many, many years. At some point, however, I decided my Mother was from a different generation, a different place, a different perspective, and she could not mess with my head any more. It was very freeing. I dealt with her with humor as much as possible and it served me well. You have to get to that place where you can deal with her, and you'll be much better off for it; it's up to you, though. Mother's been gone for 10 years, and I thank God for that difference in our relationship.

Good luck, and Peace. Let me know if I can help.

Maggie

[DJFyrewolf36]

Im here for you! Im not great with financial matters however I am a good listener. Ive been where you are, feeling too cruddy to focus. Getting you taken care of is the most important thing, you cant do much for anyone else if you're out of comission. *Hugs* and prayers on the way!