sooo..1-have you ever heard of anyone, on their deathbed wishing they had spent more time at a J-O-B? 2-get your hubby into sweats and mutually zone together, especially since he's made it clear he wants time with YOU 3-if you need the cash to keep the house bills covered, hustle another day 4- don't ever go to dinner with one of your co-workers on a day off, nothing good ever comes of that (wink). my opinion and i'm sticking with it...