Oh and just to let everyone know, kids who parents beat them do not all turn out bad!

I am a very loving mother to my son and would never even imagine doing things to him like my mother did to me. I slapped him once on his leg when he wouldn't sit still to change his diaper and he got poop EVERYWHERE ON MY MOTHERS NEW WHITE CARPET and I felt horrible. That was when he was 7 months old and I would NEVER DO IT AGAIN! ever. It wasn't hard but the thought of hurting my child even for a little spank scares me. I want him to grow up and know his mommy loves him and to teach him love and not to be afriad of me. I cried that night so long and told him I loved him a gazillion times. Now when he stresses me out and doesn't cooperate I take a deep breathe, count to ten and try again, and if that doesn't work I walk away. And guess what? I haven't done it sense. Which is good for me because I grew up that way and that was the main scary thought during my pregnancy, that I was going to turn out like my mother and I didn't....thank god. Plus you can't expect a 7 month old to sit still for a diaper change either.


But for those who feel stressed please take a beathe first and know there is another way to discipline without beating.

I have seen those kids who are not disciplined at all and are wild children! However, my bfs sister, who's son is 2 years is spanked constantly and hard! Now guess what he does to momma? He hits her when he gets mad. It's starting all over again. There are limits that must be set and she just spanks spanks spanks to no end. Once when my son was was 3 months old, her son grabbed Dylan in the face and pinched it making him bleed. She immdiately grabbed her son by the arm, took him to the couch and hit him really hard about 12 timess, on the back, butt and arms. I was amazed! Then poor guy, when he was crying he came to his mom for comfort and she hit him again. It was so sad. But now he is mimicing her. It's too bad.