Oh darling Edwina,
it is the same in our household. When mom's parents have a nawtidawg -is it my aunt then?
When SHE comes, she's a dachshund and is called Amber, Filou says hello to her. Not me!
I retire. But when Amber comes to look for me I have to show her my nice long and sharp claws!
I am feeling for you and I can see it in your face: How can your mom allow this crowd in And give them your turkey?
Love
Tigris