Yeah the girls an idiot probably has no idea this is going to haunt her some day. I mean every body dies or suffers from something...its probably going to be a lot worse for her since I doubt you are the first one to get a comment like this.

Sometimes I can be blunt, but its not like I'm saying something in a rude way. I take consideration in how to word thing properly to say something, sometimes it comes of a bit harsh but I'm know these people, and their limits. Its never really anything serious or emotionally tied though, its on lighter subjects.