Can I ask ya'll something about this guy ;]

[joycenalex]

[QUOTE=Genny;2221696]First...why did he text and ask me out when he has a GF? -..... he's young, slightly immature, doesn't have fully developed social skills set to ask you out for a date directly, and maybe she's not as tight a GF as you think..... thought about texting him one day and asking him if he wanted to ride somewhere w/ me one night. I don't know if I should though. What do you think?.... don't text though, if you're curious enough about him to want to spend some time with him, walk up to him, when he's alone and ask. be prepared for him to say no or to put you off with some mumbled maybe, and by you doing so to his face, you'll know better how he is as a person to person level, ......texting for a kinda sorta date is very lame

[Cataholic]

Ah, the joys of young adulthood/teenaged angst.

I would start this moment with setting some parameters for yourself. Do NOT date anyone that doesn't have the courage and respect to properly phone you up/see you in person and ask you out. I seem to recall a thread from you not so long ago also "wondering what something meant" type of situation.

Do not lose sleep/experience angst over this nonsense with young men. Not saying you are, just cautioning you. Focus on you, your schooling (yeah, again with the schooling), your friends and your family.

[aTailOf2Kitties]

you have posted about this guy a few times now and here's my 2 cents. He knows you really like him, but you seem a bit too emotionally demanding to him (young men are flighty and don't want drama). He does like you to some extent, and is willing to hang out and text or call you, but only on occasion because he doesn't want you to think he is full-on "interested" because he's not...at this point, anyway.