Ok heres an update on the wedding ideas etc. For the reception we are going to unwrap our gifts that way the people who gave and came to the wedding can be involved. Also I have completely given up on favors/decorations! My mother is doing that now because shes kinda taken over and I just got too frustrated with that! We got a Caterer picked out and a photographer. Our whole wedding is going to cost under or around $3,000. I think thats pretty good. Anyway, for our honeymoon we are going on a cruise ship to Cozomel, Cayman Islands and Jamaica. Apparently that is my MILs gift to us (even tho thats where we had picked out to go) but Michael and I didnt get to really pick out where when etc. It had made me mad at first because picking out all that with Michael was the thing that i was looking forward to most about the wedding (minus getting married to Michael), but whatever. The only thing I worry about is that they would come along! I really hope that they dont! My mother felt bad because she was all I cant compete with that! I told her not to worry and that shes doing enough help which is more special than gifts! Anyway thats what I have right now!