What is the rudest question...

[Catherinedana]

That isn't really accurate. You were 'admonished' for the pot calling the kettle black type comment- not expressing your desire to be child-free.

Redbird's desire to be child-free, or to love her pets more that other's children is not the same as Redbird telling a mother something offensive about the mother's child. There is a difference.

Whatever. . .

I also apologized for potentially insulting anyone. . .