Where I'm at now...something positive

**phesina** · 11-24-2009, 07:47 PM

Far-fantastic-out, Gayle! Three cheers for a great lawyer!

P.S., a candle for you, too: http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...ng&cid=9637944

**phesina** · 11-24-2009, 07:55 PM

A candle for you too, Rose: http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...ng&cid=9637999

Thinking of you and sending you love and energy at Thanksgiving..

From Pat, one of your many, many PetTalk friends (and my cats, Sydney, Poppy, Elmer, Bob, and Sparkler, also)

**rosethecopycat** · 11-25-2009, 07:41 PM

Thank you all very much.

My 'husband' signed the settlement agreement today. It's not quite 'in stone' until the gavel sounds, but if he goes back on it now, my lawyer will cry 'foul'.
And the judge will not look kindly on him.

It is a great relief. But, all I really wanted was a loving husband to go through life with...

**gini** · 11-25-2009, 07:44 PM

It sounds so trite to say this - but when one door slams shut another will open - and behind that door is peace, newfound strength and happiness.

I wish that for both of you!

**Queen of Poop** · 11-25-2009, 08:25 PM

Originally Posted by rosethecopycat

Thank you all very much.

My 'husband' signed the settlement agreement today. It's not quite 'in stone' until the gavel sounds, but if he goes back on it now, my lawyer will cry 'foul'.
And the judge will not look kindly on him.

It is a great relief. But, all I really wanted was a loving husband to go through life with...

He was not the right one for you sweetie. Give it time, good things are coming, or so everyone tells me. I am glad he signed the agreement. Doubtful he will go against it now. I wish I could share your relief, I envy you that you're pretty much done. Give yourself a pat on the back from me. You've done good. You will find happiness again, probably sooner than you think and much sooner than I ever will. I am happy for you.

**Daisy and Delilah** · 11-25-2009, 11:13 PM

I just want to wish both of you a very Happy Thanksgiving. I hope both of you are able to have a wonderful day in spite of everything. I know it's going to be hard this year but your PT family is with both of you. You're both stronger than you think. I really believe you'll both be so much happier next year at this time.

{{{{{GAYLE AND ROSE}}}}}

**Alysser** · 11-26-2009, 08:13 AM

I just wanted to wish you too ladies and Happy Thanksgiving!

Love, Alyssa and Mikey

ENJOY yourselves - even if you don't have turkey, make it a good day!

**Karen** · 11-26-2009, 09:02 AM

Rose, now you can call him your "has-been" instead of husband!

Happy Thanksgiving, I know yours was last month, Gayle, but you have friends here who are thankful that you and Rose are both safer this Thanksgiving!

**RICHARD** · 11-26-2009, 10:37 AM

Sit down and write out all your good qualities.

Then lie about your bad qualities as you put those down.......

Love yourself first, then you can love the rest of the 3 point whatever billion, zillion people on the planet.

The world is at your front door.
The only reason you never realize it is because
it cannot knock or ring.

**Queen of Poop** · 11-26-2009, 10:37 AM

Thank you all. I am very, very grateful for all of you. Enjoy your Thanksgiving!

**Queen of Poop** · 11-26-2009, 01:22 PM

I have some good news to share. Our accountant is sending me all the tax records that I need and Revenue Canada is going to do the same, so him not letting me have access to my Tax file is a moote point now.

I have to say I was really impressed with the dude at Revenue Canada, he was over the top helpful and very nice. Totally not what I was expecting at all.

It's put a smile on my face!

And I'd like to send this to my very soon to be ex-husband