i'm planning on being cremated, i've asked eileen to mix my ashes with dukes' and alexs', then sprinkle all of us from a boat off the shore of my favorite lake michigan beach. i had a paving stone made for alex the wonder dog and it will be set at the park of roses. i'd like one for me as well, next to his, just my name, and the statement on it, she made a difference for humans and dogs. anyone want an obituary in their local paper?