Where I'm at now...something positive

**Medusa** · 11-11-2009, 07:45 AM

Originally Posted by Queen of Poop

For the most part I had a good day today. Until I was riding the train home, listening to my ipod. I started thinking again how unbelievable this whole thing is. Now I'm in a bit of a funk.

This will probably happen for quite some time but as time goes on it will be easier to dismiss it from your mind. I've been divorced nearly 14 years and I still have those moments. Really, though, what else can we expect? Our lives have changed dramatically and when it first happens, we're in such a state of upheaval that we don't know which end is up. Your equilibrium will come w/time and memories won't sting as much. Actually, believe it or not, you'll have good memories to look back on and there won't be as much of that "unbelievable" feeling. It'll come. You're doing great. Keep the faythe.

**gini** · 11-11-2009, 12:42 PM

The library is a great place to go - and as Karen said - if you find a good book to read - so much the better.

I hope each of you had a good nights rest and that this day is good for you.

**Pembroke_Corgi** · 11-11-2009, 04:53 PM

I just wanted to send you both some more support. It looks like even the pets of PT are behind you!

**Queen of Poop** · 11-11-2009, 05:19 PM

Thanks everyone. It's been a pretty good day today. Got most of my list for the acreage house done. Now I need to sit down and really focus on what was where in the kitchen, basement storage, garage and outside, everything else is done. I will have good info for my divorce lawyer on Nov 23. Too much thinking though, I've got a lovely headache now.

Rose, hope you managed to get thru today. How was the library?