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  1. #1
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    Unfortunately there is no magic cure. Time does help though. I had to have the love of my life, Morgan, put to sleep four weeks ago today. I still have tears, although I think I may have had a day or possibly two this last week where I was only sad and didn't cry. Time is all I can offer you. I promise it does help. We don't forget them. And we still miss them, but that searing pain does lessen with time. As the days go by, you will find it will be easier to talk about your dear one with out crying so much. And then sometime out of the blue, the tears will fall. Just remember that she will always be part of you. I am very sorry for your loss.

    Time helps the sadness subside, but the memories remain forever.

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    Each of us may have a different response for you. I think the best thing for you on an immediate basis is to just give in to your sadness and tears.
    Sob if you need to - it truly is what you are feeling.

    So many things will remind you of your baby girl that the tears will just flow. But there comes a point when you are all cried out. It doesn't mean you care any less - it is just that you are coming to terms with your huge loss.

    Moesha is right - that searing pain (and it is that) will lessen but it simply takes time. But she will always be your little love and your heart will be full just thinking of her - but it will be with more love than pain.

    I think what is so difficult for you in particular is that your little baby was very young.

    Again, my heart goes out to you. I have been where you are and it just isn't easy.

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    My heart kitty Oscar is on my pillow every morning, snuggled up to me like I am just a big cat, and even grooming my nose and forehead (OUCH! Oscar, I don't have fur on my nose and face! )

    I can see Squeak had that same bond with you...I can only begin to imagine what a huge hole that has left in your life and heart.

    When my sister was in her early teens, she had a grey tabby named Squeak. Your beautiful girl reminds me so much of her.

    {{{{hugs}}}}
    "Do or do not. There is no try." -- Yoda

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    Your Squeak was such a lucky girl to have you as a Mom!!! It is so hard to lose these very special friends!! Sleep softly, sweet Squeak...
    Nine is Fine!!

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    Very special pictures you've shared with us---so very sorry for your loss, it's never easy.

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    I am so very sorry for your loss. What a beautiful, sweet kitty, and that picture of her and you in bed sleeping is precious. Such lovely memories you have to cherish!

    You and Squeak are part of each other always.

    Rest in peace, beloved little kitty. Your Meowmie loves you and misses you so much.
    I meant," said Ipslore bitterly, "what is there in this world that truly makes living worthwhile?"
    Death thought about it.
    CATS, he said eventually. CATS ARE NICE.

    -- Terry Pratchett (1948—2015), Sourcery

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