So it's okay, I should have mentioned color scheme. As for "favors," you can go with candy cinnamon hearts ties in a little white net square, then gathered and tied with a dark red ribbon that matches the dresses ... if you know about how many guests you are having, you can do a bunch at a time over the course of January, it's tedious, but not too bad. If you don't like the cinnamon hearts, you can do red and white M&ms, same idea. Other people do Jordan Almonds, it's traditional, or you can use anything you want, really.

If you want people to have a lasting momento, you can get little metal beads to tie to the end of the ribbon - wedding bells, or hearts, or anything meaningfl to both of you, and people can keep the ribbon and weight as a bookmark.

Are any of your bridesmaids or ushers tech-savvy people? You could ask them to put together a slide show - get the moms involved, and it could be a fun project. Then you can just rent a little projector for the afternoon, any camera-shop type place should have one available for such things that you can book ahead.

People often make little speeches as "toasts" - it's traditional for the Best Man to make a toast, then others are invited to make any they want.

How many guests are you having? Do you have a place picked for the wedding and reception?