It's over...

[cassiesmom]

As Medusa said - I don't know the details - but I'm praying and sending (((HUGS))) for you.

[blue]

I can think of a few web sites where members would be grabbing rubber hoses, sharpening pitchforks, lighting torches and heading to the soon to be ex's house.

QOP, good for you for getting out. Stay strong.

[Daisy and Delilah]

I've also wondered for a long time how things were going at your house, Gayle. I am so glad to hear you've made this choice. Like blue said:::Stay Strong!! We're here for you. PM to me is always open and I'll be ready. You've done the right thing. No one deserves to be treated like you have and especially for so long.

[Queen of Poop]

Thanks everyone. It is so good to have support. You just don't know. I'm back to ask for prayers and good thoughts. I've found a place to rent, where I could have the kittens with me. It's only 1000 per month, with 200 on top for utilities. It would be fully furnished. I need good thoughts to make them get back to me and let me have the place.

As a side note, Sasha is not doing well and I am afraid I am going to have to make the final decision for her on top of all the other stuff I am going thru. She looks at me with tired eyes and seems to be in so much pain, even though she's still on her pain meds.

I don't know how I'm going to get thru all this.

[RICHARD]

I don't know how I'm going to get thru all this.

Today's problems belong to yesterday, tomorrow.

One day at a time and will get thru it.

Or you can give up now, lie down, roll up into a little ball and not be bothered.


You will get thru this, it just takes time and patience. Everyone has time-patience is something that is a little bit harder to come by, but it's there.

Prayers needed?
Prayers sent.

[Asiel]

So sorry QOP but quoting Medussa. I'll keep you in my thoughts and keep my fingers crossed for that apartment you hope to get.
One day at a time is the best way to cope , but hoping that decision for your fur friend can be put off.

[Catty1]

Prayers you get that apartment.

You just need to deal with today, even one moment at a time.

Dear dear Sasha...prayers for her and you.

And...the ex contacts your LAWYER, not you.

Does your company have an EAP where you might get some counselling, even to just unload? Get all the support you can, hon!