Mackensie Phillips

[moosmom]

What chaps my *** about the whole thing is she is trying to come off as being a "victim". She was over the consentual age for God's sake!!! What part of N-O didn't she understand. There are relatives that were there that have verified her story. Who freaking cares? They should all be ashamed of themselves.

I am a victim of rape/molestation and I resent her trying to make people feel sorry for her. I was only 10 years old at the time and it was done by a VERY CLOSE relative, who knew better.

She can blame it on the drugs all she wants. She was an adult who knew better, drugs or no drugs. And I won't be lining her purse by buying the book. UGH!!!

[Catty1]

When MacKenzie was 11, her father introduced her to cocaine...and was the first person to ever inject her with heroin.

Even though the sex started when she was legally an adult, she was definitely under his sway drug-wise. Those two drugs alone are beyond horrible.

Even at 19, she awoke from a blackout to find herself having sex with her father. He had arrived to stop her wedding, which was to happen the next day.

Dad was sick and a control freak...no one was getting "his" girl.

[Edwina's Secretary]

What is interesting to me is that there is great sympathy for the victim of Roman Polanski but very little sympathy for (or even belief in!) Mackenzie Phillips.

Is it because the idea of a father having sex with his daughter is so disgusting we do not want to believe it?

I knew a woman who had her father arrested for having sex with her and her sisters. He finally confessed. Nonetheless her mother and her siblings blamed her for "telling the world" what he had done. She had tried to tell her mother when she was very young. Her mother made fun of her.

I stood up in her wedding. I do not know if I could have done it had I known the whole story at the time. I could not have been civil to her parents.

Her Christian faith told her she must "honor her mother and father." So she forgave them.

I could not. She was a very messed up woman.

Her father had paid for an abortion because he was afraid it was his child. He was a teacher at a Christian school. That is what made her go to the police. She worried for other children he might have access to as a teacher.

I wish I could tell you the number of people who "did not believe her." After all, a father would not do that. I saw the pain and the damage. I still see it in my mind's eye today.

I do not understand why many people write books about what I think should be very private matters - or why they allow tv cameras in their homes. I do not understand how Sarah Palin has a 400 page memoir when she has done nothing special yet in life.

I won't buy Phillips' book (or Palin's either) but to suggest it was her fault - to suggest she would lie about something like...juxapositioned against all the sympathy for Polanski's victim (and I do believe both women were victims!!) makes me very sad.

[Catty1]

ES - I truly hope that young woman has found some healing and peace...and that she married a good man.

[kitten645]

ES. as usual I agree with you 100%, Some people have f**ked up lives. I've had my own..not close to this but my sincere wish is that all come out on the otherside Relatively whole.
Blessings. Why the heck am I in the Dog House? LOL
Claudia

[blue]

I dont really see Mackenzie Phillips as a victim in the same way the child RP victimized.

Why bring Palin's book into this thread? Makes no sense to do so.