Candace, prayers for you. I am sorry you are going through this. As for advice, I agree with everyone else.

Take care. Love and hugs and purrs to you,
Pat, Peony, Sydney, Poppy, Elmer, Bob, and Sparkler

P.S., one of these for you, too: http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/...ng&cid=9092090