I'm kinda sad about this =(

[k9krazee]

I think she'd appreciate it (or if not now, she will) if you gave her a big hug and told her how much you'll miss her. I'm on the other side of your situation. My sister (she's 16) has basically become the only child. My twin brother still lives at home, but he works and goes to school full time.

It'll take time to adjust to the new home environment, but once you get in a routine it'll be easier. I'm not sure how close you and your sister are, but this actually might be good for your relationship.

I never really had much of a relationship with my sister growing up. She's 5 years younger than me and we never had much in common. When I left for college 3 years ago I was SO happy to be leaving my parent's house. Now, I miss my family more than ever. I talk to my Mom or Dad every day on the phone, and often call to talk to my sister. We've had the best relationship that we've ever had. I do get all nostalgic from time to time, wishing things could be like they used to.

I know you'll miss her and it'll be hard to get used to. You're right, things won't ever be the same again. But it doesn't mean that you shouldn't make the most of it.

[CountryWolf07]

You will get used to it. Don't worry. It's normal to feel that way. My two brothers felt that way when I left for Kent State my 3rd year of college. Now, I've graduated from Ohio State, and I am living back at home, and this time, it is my turn to be the only one living with my parents. My brothers will both be gone at Ohio State.

[happylabs]

Oh my dear, you will LOVE it! I am in a similar situation. My daughter will go off to college on Sunday for her second year. My son is grown and out of the house and I am no longer married so I will be completely ALONE. Of course, I have my kitties and Casey.

Just remember your sister is only a phone call, email or IM away. Isn't it amazing how much you appreciate your family when you realize they will not be around.

You will do fine.

[pomtzu]

You really should tell her how you feel. We only go around once. Don't wait till it's too late, and then regret the things you didn't say.

Just look at what you say in your siggy..............

[lvpets2002]

I so aggree..

You really should tell her how you feel. We only go around once. Don't wait till it's too late, and then regret the things you didn't say.

Just look at what you say in your siggy..............

[Daisy and Delilah]

Alyssa, I still have trouble saying things like that to my sister and brother. I know it's hard. I hope you can find the courage to say something to her and give her a hug if you want. It's hard for everybody when the regular home life starts to change. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

[pomtzu]

Here's a suggestion that you might find helpful. If you find difficulty in actually "saying" what you feel, how about writing her a nice letter. It's probably something that she will always treasure.
Or even one step easier - there are so many greeting cards that have very lovely messages in them - that could be an option. You can usually find them in the "inspirational" section, and there are so many different ones with many different messages. I guess they make them for folks like you and a lot of others who just can't find the right words or feel awkward speaking them.