I have the same feeding issue with my 2 boys. Havoc is a dainty and easily distracted eater who wanders off after a few bites, so I have to keep feeding him often. Toby on the other hand is a big lump o' kitty who eats everything in sight.... and anything else he can find. So I have to watch them both like a hawk come feeding time and take up Havoc's bowl as soon as he loses interest, or else Toby sneaks up and eats all of the food.