I think both of them are wrong.... but when Kate is playing the oppressed woman role, I throw up a little in my mouth....oppressed with a million dollar home, vacations all of the time, more help than we would ever have with our kids....sheesh, give me a break. If she really cared, she would do what she can to get out of the production and try to give her children a non-fishbowl existence, but she doesn't want to give up the money train.....Jon certainly doesn't....