Things are great, but.. ? [relationship question]

[Pinot's Mom]

"Sometimes seeing a counselor can help you get things ironed out and on a better communicating level."

That's exactly the resolution I was alluding to, but I was trying not to sound too much like Dear Abby! I hope you can figure this out.

[kokopup]

The fact that you are asking the question tells me in your heart you know the answer. I know that some guys have problems with saying the words, and if it were just the lack of words I would not worry. The most intimate thing a guy can do is hold your hand. if he is not doing this then he has a real problem showing affection. Don't confuse sex and affection. If he is not after 3 years wanting to hold your hand when you walk, then he will never give you the affection that you really need. An experienced males 2 cent worth.