I'm also intimidated by certain breeds, but that never stops me from asking permission to pet someone's dog. It's also another reason I go to the dog park, to watch them interact and try to learn more about different breeds.

I agree, though, that a dog off the leash, running towards you, is a scary thing. I don't care how friendly the dog is. I don't know that when I'm about to be pounced on! I can't tolerate such irresponsibility from a pet owner.

I remember being taught to stand completely still like a tree.

I feel bad for your friend, but, after my *incident*, I know how she feels. Nothing in the world can erase that kind of memory.