Ahhh, ok. I'm not shaking as much now. Whew!
Every time Bruce can't find something I'm always the one to find it. And this is the BEST thing I've found so far.
Anyway, I got home and walked around the back yard (not all of it) calling to her. Then I walked around the block and through the park that is right behind our yard.
When I got home Bruce was in the back yard and I asked him if there was any way she could get under the deck. He said no. When he built it they put wire around it so critters couldn't get under there. So I was walking around the back of the deck where there is a cement slab for parking a car. I was talking to Bruce and stopped facing the back of the deck fence. I just happened to look down and there she was under the edge of the deck against the wire mesh. I was so happy I started bawling.
He said it's a good thing I came home, because he was about to give up. I came home because I wasn't having any fun and I could also hear the worry and sadness in his voice when I would call him.

THANK YOU ALL!!! For your words of encouragement and everything!

My friend was even on her way here to help me look. I called her and told her. She said - well I'm still coming over. And I said - fine, we can celebrate!!