Hope he finds a job soon. I know it's difficult.

Hubby had to put up with me when I was out of work.
I know I was difficult to deal with.

Your hubby feels frustrated, inadequate, guilty and helpless.
As soon as he find a satisfying job, things will change. For now, continue to be patient, supportive and try to remember the good times.

Here is a really good job site: www.indeed.com
You just pop in your zip code and voila'.