Lily's love has been rejected!!

[Kirsten]

Mary, I'm sorry that you and sweet Creamsicle had such an unpleasant experience!

Yes, the situation with my sister is painful. I don't see her very often, and when she's coming here (to our hometown), her hubby is always with her, and when he's around, she's not talking to me. They act as if they find everything I do or everything I'm interested too silly to even talk about it. I always feel so stupid when they're around. I feel they don't respect me as a person, but I think it's coming from my BIL.

Kirsten

[Anikaca77]

I can relate to you very well. Every time my sister comes to my house she won't sit on the couch because of the cat hair and it's not like I don't vacuum my couch but with 8 cats well and Ozzy at the moment I can't help if it's not always done. I try my best, I always make sure the cat litter boxes are clean and that they have fresh food and water but sometimes I slack on vacuuming. I just find it really insulting at times. Plus my cats are very lovey and they love attention.

Today we are having my parents over for supper, it's been a while since both of them have come over but hopefully the cats behave themselves while we eat dinner.

My sister thinks I'm nuts with the number of cats that we have right now and she never understood my cat rescuing or anything like that but oh well I feel I'm doing a good thing and I guess that's what really matters.

Melissa

[momcat]

Oh Kirsten,
I'm so sorry to hear that your sister rejected Lily that way. If we were closer and I was given the privilege of visiting your home I would welcome both Lily and Luna on my lap then shower them with love and the attention they deserve. Please give Lily lots of lovies from me in an attempt to make up for being slighted like that And don't forget Luna's share

[catmandu]

Its sad that your sister doesnt like you, but that the height of rudeness to take that out on Lily who was only trying to be friends.

Thats just her way of showing her disdain by ignoring Your Cats.

I think that you are a better person, you have such a good heart, and are such a Very Good Meeowmie to Lily and Luna.
What a shame that Lilys feelings were hurt unneccisarily.

I would welcome LILY and LUNA and bring them both AWA Mice!!!

[Barbara]

Your nearest and dearest are often the ones who can hurt you very much. But cats: they often like people who don't like them as these people normally don't pester them with "Oh you little cutie pie" etc
If people visit with babies however it will be me who keeps her arms behind her back

[Edwina's Secretary]

I like one of my sisters much better when her husband is not around. And I do not like how he is with my cats (he shoos them off the table and other furniture IN MY HOUSE.)

But, I think he feels equal to me so that's okay.

I am like Barbara - when people ask "do you want to hold the baby?" I wonder why they want me to do so.

[Sonia59]

(he shoos them off the table and other furniture IN MY HOUSE.)

I don't understand why people need to do that!



Kirsten, it is so sad. Tell Lily we love her, please. I am sending virtual cuddling.
At home we hold the baby and the cats together, or one after the other, we have no problem with this