Try going to http://catfaeries.com/essences.html . They have some flower essences that are supposed to work for a variety of things. They have different varieties of them for different problems.

For example:
calm, stress relief
multi cat
litter box problems
territorial

By the way, that website has been very helpful with cleaning up urine messes and they also sell feliway at a decent price too.

Clyde only seems to meow like crazy behind a closed door in the morning when he wants his wet food. Luckily at night he hasn't been doing that or I would feel really bad (even worse than I do now) not letting him sleep in bed with me.

I'm glad to know that a lot of you keep your cats confined to a downstairs area at night or when you are gone. I'm afraid to give Clyde the run of the house because I don't want to wake up to poop everywhere. Oh and he's been jumping on the counters now too! Silly cat!