Thanks for all of your advice. I really appreciate it. It turns out hair gel was my bf's allergy problem and not Clyde!! Yea!! So we're going back to all sleeping together this evening! I've been sleeping on the couch with him so it wouldn't mess him up as much.

Has anyone tried flower essences? I saw something about them on cat faeries
http://catfaeries.com/essences.html and was wondering if anyone has any experience with them.

I'm probably trying to many things and should just leave him alone but I'm trying to get this stuff straightened out before it becomes a habit.

BTW, there is this chair he keeps peeing on and my bf doesn't know about it. I've tried cleaning it with POO (Pet odor out) but he peed on it again before I was done treating it. I'm going to AIP (anti icky poo) next. Any suggestions on how I can keep him off the chair without my bf knowing what's going on? Right now I have a box on it because I'm moving but the box can't stay there forever. I'm up for any and all suggestions. I never catch him on that chair and there is always pee in his boxes so I don't know when he does it.

Thanks for everything. I'm hoping to get some pics posted this weekend!