Lalania, I'm almost 40 and I've never been married. I think my longest relationship was about 2 years and that was an on again off again kind of relationship. I also lived with one boyfriend and I learned a lot of things from my mistakes. Now I've stopped looking for Mr. Right and I just live for me and my 3 cats. I figure if I'm meant to have a partner in life then it will happen and if not then it won't. Since I'm not used to having a boyfriend, I really don't miss it. Good luck but please take your time.