waiting for the chaplain to arrive

[caseysmom]

I am sure it will be hard at the funeral...my daughter was mad that she didn't get to be one of them at the crash scene at the school...

one of my neighbors drove by when I was walking the chaplain to the door...who knows what he thinks...

[moosmom]

I had a cop come to my door and ask me if I was who I was. I said yes, and the cop said, "It's your Dad." I knew the day would come but it never EVER prepares you for what you are about to see or smell. And believe me, the sight and smell of death is something that stays with you forever.

I'm just glad this was only a practice. Mine was NOT a dress rehearsal, unfortunately.

[Medusa]

I couldn't do it. I wouldn't want to attract that situation to me in any form. You're made of stronger stuff than I.

[caseysmom]

I know what you mean Donna, I found my mom, 911 made me try to resucciteate her even though I knew it was too late.

Laura's babies...hugs...I can't even imagine, I am sorry if this thread reminded you of that night but if I can help one mother not get that knock I don't mind. I was glad I had the day off, otherwise they want to come to your work...two coworkers of mine got that knock at night so I would not have agreed to that.

I had front row tickets to the kings game tonight to see my favorite nba player of all time get his jersey retired but this meant a lot to my daughter.

Medusa...this is trying to NOT attract that situation, I think my daughter is learning a good lesson, she just got her licence 2 weeks ago.

My other daughter texted me that there is an obituary for my daughter in the hallway at school and there is a tombstone on the lawn. Parents don't get to go to the crash scene this afternoon.

[Medusa]

Medusa...this is trying to NOT attract that situation, I think my daughter is learning a good lesson, she just got her licence 2 weeks ago.

Oh I'm not finding fault w/her; just stating that I just wouldn't want to get that vibe going. As I said, she's made of stronger stuff than I.

[caseysmom]

One girl has to be taken to the morgue in a body bag and have her clothes cut off, two are life fighted to area hospitals and one boy is arrested and taken to jail so my daughters role in minimal compared to them.

[Taz_Zoee]

One girl has to be taken to the morgue in a body bag and have her clothes cut off, two are life fighted to area hospitals and one boy is arrested and taken to jail so my daughters role in minimal compared to them.

Have her clothes cut off!! No way!! The only way I'd be "ok" with that to happen is if I'm unconcious or dying. I would never agree to "act" that part of it out. I'm way too shy.