I Have Given Up Trying To Change Smokey

[Catty1]

Talk to your vet about using medication short-term; Smokey might be better at being trained with its help.

Or, he may need to be on it for life. Something quite mild that won't hurt kidneys or liver.

Even something like Rescue Remedy.

[bckrazy]

Lizbud, I really, truly feel for you and I can empathize. Gonzo is going to be 8 this summer... and although he has come a long way in many aspects, sometimes I feel like I haven't accomplished anything with him in years. I have to remind myself that training is an ongoing process, and sometimes I need to just start fresh and go back to basic stuff to give both of us a confidence boost.

Clicker training has helped me immensely. Just understanding how to shape behaviors, without any force or stress involved for either of us, has really changed how I think about training. I highly recommend getting a few good books by a few good, respectable trainers and just reading them and starting from a clean slate. Keep working with Smokey, because as much as you love him, he is worth the effort and he has many more years left to learn.

Here are a few AMAZING books that have really helped me with my insecure little guy:
http://www.amazon.com/Click-Calm-Hea.../dp/1890948209
http://www.amazon.com/Scaredy-Unders...AASD65JN4EKNY1
http://www.amazon.com/Cautious-Canin...ref=pd_sim_b_7

[Daisy and Delilah]

Daisy is like that too. She is scared of people trying to touch her. She acts as if she wants to be near people but she gets frightened if they get close. Usually after about 5 visits to our house, she will act sorta happy with whoever it is.

She doesn't like to be brushed and she's almost fearful when she sees me get it. She's terrified to go to the groomer for anything. The vet visits almost give her a breakdown. She has even had slight bowel movements, she's so scared at these places. She even gets fearful when she tries to turn over for belly rubs. It's almost as if she's scared someone is going to hurt her all the time. I have always been puzzled by her behavior.

I always say she's the strangest dog I've ever seen. I've also had her since she was 8 weeks old. There's no reason for her to be like this and I have also given up on trying to change her.

The only thing I have attributed it to is that she was born in a house with several loud and aggressive dogs and humans. They didn't mistreat the pets but it could have intimidated her. She also may have been traumatized by all the people that came to see her when I got her. She was so tiny and cute, everybody wanted to see her. A couple of the kids may have scared her.

[lizbud]

Thanks all for the ideas & suggestions given. It has given me some
things to think about. It can be the sweetest pup sometimes, but
as far as changing a whole lot, I'll just see what happens.


Just last evening I was hammering something on the kitchen floor. I
swung the hammer & hit my left index finger Whoa, did it ever
hurt. I rocked back & forth on the floor moaning & holding the injured
finger. Just then, I felt a cold nose on my cheek. It was Smokey trying
to see if I was ok.

[Taz_Zoee]

Just last evening I was hammering something on the kitchen floor. I
swung the hammer & hit my left index finger Whoa, did it ever
hurt. I rocked back & forth on the floor moaning & holding the injured
finger. Just then, I felt a cold nose on my cheek. It was Smokey trying
to see if I was ok.

Awww, how sweet.