I can understand why you feel like a victim again. I was hoping it would be cut and dried and completely in your favor all the way. I'm sorry that it isn't like that.

I agree with Phred in saying that the judge doesn't sound impartial enough. Maybe he was having a bad day?? Outcomes can depend on moods that people are in at the time of decision. Not always fair but true. It's good that you mentioned that. It's something to think about.

I have no advice. I just want to send thoughts and prayers out to you. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

Good questions, Phred.