Thanks for the response.

2 days of no sofa. There was crying and begging to get up on the sofa w/ me or on hubby's lap n his chair. Of course, I wanted to let her up on the sofa. Knowing that it is more important to modify this behavior, I stuck to my guns. Hubby is skeptical, but reluctantly agreeing to go along w/ the restrictions ....so far. If she continues to cry, hubby may not stay on the same page. He also has this streak in him that believes allowing her aggression to come out, and then overpowering it shows her who is boss. To this end, there is part of his behavior which may be instigating aggression in her.

Thanks for the tips on "Give". I have tried to ask her to "give" me her bone back. WRONG. Not happening. Will try your suggestions; they make sense.