A guy does NOT define me....rant.

**Queen of Poop** · 03-10-2009, 08:04 AM

Fairly certain she won't be your brother's girlfriend for long. She's not a pretty person period. You on the other hand are adorable and you have your thinking right.

**moosmom** · 03-10-2009, 08:54 AM

Queen of Poop said it right. At the rate this immature kid is going, she won't be your brother's girlfriend for long. And for the record, you are very pretty!! She sounds very insecure. Just let it roll off your shoulders and ignore her.

Don't EVER let anyone guy, or otherwise, define who you are. Stand tall and proud of who you are, girl. It took me years to figure that out and that's why I prefer to be by myself. I see what my friends go through with their SO's, husbands, etc. Glad I've got my cats!!

Nothing without a man? What planet is this girl from anyway??? I thought that way for so long after my divorce. It took years for me to finally be happy being by myself.

**pomtzu** · 03-10-2009, 09:02 AM

I think you are very pretty!

And I'm happy as a clam - and the only men in my life - are my son, grandson, and dog!!!

**jennielynn1970** · 03-10-2009, 09:08 AM

Hrm... how does your brother pick these women??

For the record, you're adorable!

Secondly, I am happy, and I'm cute, and I'm single. So tell Ms. What's her name she's gotta be happy with herself first, and then maybe she'll see herself as pretty as well. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but if you need to feel it in yourself first.

**Taz_Zoee** · 03-10-2009, 09:40 AM

Jennie said exactly what I was gonna say. You need to be happy with yourself first. I'm actually surprised she even found a man with that way of thinking.

And I think you are very pretty. The color of your hair and your beautiful eyes.....WOW!!

**mruffruff** · 03-10-2009, 10:05 AM

She is so Wrong!!

I haven't had a guy in my life for many years, but that doesn't make me ugly. Try self-confident and choosy.

And you are a very pretty girl. Wish I was that young again.